ARIES: MARCH 21 - APRIL 20 You can't be there for people who refuse to be there for themselves. If this is a waste of time, don't kid them or yourself about how much you care. Leave it alone. This was never meant to turn into your problem.

TAURUS: APRIL 21 - MAY 20 Too much has come out in the open for you to feel weird about your problems. No one's perfect. You're nuts if you think you have to be. Stop trying so hard to please. Let people take you for who you are.

GEMINI: MAY 21 - JUNE 20 Don't try to micromanage other people's lives. It never works. Besides, who are you kidding? You've got more than a few issues to sort out. Use your managerial skills to pull your own life together.

CANCER: JUNE 21 - JULY 20 The best thing to do would be to make sure this is working for both of you. You've made too many compromises and you'll wind up right back where you started if you don't make some demands of your own.

LEO: JULY 21 - AUGUST 20 You can hear people out without feeling responsible for whatever their problem is. Don't let anyone stick you with a guilt trip. You've already paid your dues. Let them figure out how to handle this.

VIRGO: AUGUST 21 - SEPTEMBER 20 Too much work has obscured what's important. You're beginning to see that life doesn't involve being hard on yourself. Stop making everything such a big deal. Give yourself room to breathe.

LIBRA: SEPTEMBER 21 - OCTOBER 20 You can do this as long as you aren't overly invested in what it means or how it turns out. Any need for certainty will 86 any possibility of having an absolute ball. For once, see if you can work without a net.

SCORPIO: OCTOBER 21 - NOVEMBER 20 You'd be happier if you weren't so hung up on someone who isn't there. Your preoccupation has you putting your life on hold. Don't hang around waiting for the phone to ring; getting a life would be a lot more fun.

SAGITTARIUS: NOVEMBER 21 - DECEMBER 20 This is working better than it was. Crawling out of the hole is always a slow process but this time at least you're familiar with the territory. Keep up the good work and keep trusting your wits to get you by.

CAPRICORN: DECEMBER 21 - JANUARY 20 The next few weeks will test all of your limits. You can deal with pretty much anything but you're already totally burnt out. Rise to the occasion one more time. Whatever it takes, it'll be well worth it.

AQUARIUS: JANUARY 21 - FEBRUARY 20 You have all the power in this situation. Why you give it away is beyond me. With so much at stake you're nuts to let someone else make all your decisions. If this is important to you, stick up for your rights.

PISCES: FEBRUARY 21 - MARCH 20 The grapevine has you doing all kinds of interesting things. Don't worry too much about what people say. If there were any truth to those tales you wouldn't be sitting around reading your horoscope!